12 Days of Parenting | Linky 1 (2016 Collaboration)

Yah, it’s another 12 days of parenting collaboration! Last year was a writing, reading, and commenting frenzy for me … such fun working with other bloggers.

This year’s is a bit different – no brand involvement, no accompanying giveaway bundle; it’s collaboration for the love writing, and capturing your end of year thoughts and reflections. It’s about recording moments for memory lane, inspired by the festive season.

So, what’s the collaboration about? 

Overarching theme:

12 moments of parenting – considering snapshots of parenting related thoughts and acts at the end of the year.

Individual themes: 

The themes are anchored around the number 12, borrowed from the number of the traditional ‘days of Christmas’. They can be about Christmas, the festive season, winter, end of the year, or other cultural or religious festivities that you celebrate around this time.

You can personalise the themes to suit your writing, within the context stated above.

  1. 12 ways to stay organised / things to do to prepare for …
  2. 12 things I love about …
  3. 12 things to do on …. day or during …
  4. 12 gift ideas for …
  5. 12 … traditions
  6. 12 activities to do with children during …
  7. 12 things … means to me
  8. 12 ways to wrap up …
  9. 12 wishes / hopes / dreams / for the new year
  10. 12 acts of kindness
  11. 12 highlights of 2016
  12. 12 (your own theme)


How would the collaboration work?

You blog or microblog in relation to the themes … chronologically or randomly … all or some … whatever works for you, really.

Then, link up your post to the 12 days of parenting linky hosted by aNoviceMum and Mummies Waiting.

And lastly, we invite you to spread the blog love by reading and commenting on other linked posts, and sharing them far and wide.

Simples … right?

Who is the collaboration for?

It’s opened to all family friendly bloggers – parent, grandparent, and lifestyle bloggers etc. The key thing is to work with the themes and enjoy the collaboration.

12 Days of Parenting collaboration

The 2016 12 Days of Parenting Collaboration Linky:

  • Link up a post – from your blog or even Facebook – per theme, with your post’s url, title, and twitter handle
  • Linky opens at 8pm on Thursday 15 December to 11.55pm on Thursday 29 December 2016
  • Tweet us for retweets with the hashtag #12DaysofParenting16 at @mummieswaiting and @aNoviceMum
  • Join the #12’s group pinterest board to further share your posts
    • follow aNoviceMum and Mummies Waiting if you will
    • comment below with your Pinterest username to be invited
    • create and share long pins for your post
    • repin 2 pins for every pin you share on the board
  • Join the #12DaysofParenting Facebook group to more shares, to stay up to date with the collaboration, and interact with other bloggers.

Linky Rules:

Share the blog love: comment on the hosts’ posts, the post before yours and another you fancy

Hashtag: Comment and share posts with #12DaysofParenting16 hashtag, to help spread the word

Share the linky love if you want: by adding our badge to help promote the linky

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What you can expect from your linky hosts:

We will read and comment on as many posts as possible.

We’ll retweet posts tweeted to us with the #12DaysofParenting16 hashtag.

We’ll promote the linky on social media, to increase our potential audience reach.

We’ll share posts shared on theme threads on the #12DaysofParenting Facebook group, on the collaboration’s Facebook page.

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2016 12 Days of Parenting Collaboration for seasonal and themed family friendly reflections at the end of the year. Check out our adjustable themes, write your posts, link them to the 12 Days of Parenting Linky hosted by @aNoviceMum and @MummiesWaiting, then read and comment on other linked posts, and share away. You can also join the 12 days of parenting group board and Facebook group for more share.

My First Christmas as a Mum: What do we do for Christmas?

This is it, the last day of #12daysofparenting :-(. Today’s theme is: the first year Santa came / didn’t come / is coming. Thanks for hopping from Having a Baby and Living at Home if you did. 🙂 Massive thanks to Baby Bundle, Bambini & Me, Sand Art, Lycrawidow (Younique), Cuddledry, Fresh Photography, Gumigem, and Snooze Shade for our fab grand prize. Entries (UK Residents Only) are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post. See the 12 Days of Parenting page for terms and conditions.

Christmas growing up when others are organising and making it happen for you, is one thing; making Christmas happen for others is something else. I can’t remember thinking of Christmas beyond my experience of the season when I was young, and even through university. Then zoom to last year with my 11 month old, my first Christmas as a mum … bring on the niggling about what Christmas should be like for us. Continue reading

What I Need To Get Through Christmas

Oh my word, it’s day 11 of #12daysofparenting; can you believe that? Today’s theme is about helpful products to get through the season. Thanks for hopping from Cookies and Cwtches if you did. 🙂 Our fab giveaway includes a bubba bag from Snoozeshade; entries (UK Residents Only) are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post. See the 12 Days of Parenting page for terms and conditions.

My title should be what I WANT to get through the season; I tell you, I very much would like a number of things, but that’s another post on another day. So on to what I need to get through Christmas; not much really … I think … considering that my Christmas is a ‘non-Christmas’ anyway.

Foremost on my list is time; oh my word, I need more time. The school holiday is zooming through way too fast for my liking. Continue reading

My parenting expectations vs reality at Christmas

I can’t believe it’s day 10 of #12daysofparenting; today’s theme is about parenting expectations vs reality at Christmas time. Thanks for hopping from The Mummy Balance if you did. 🙂 Our fab giveaway includes a bubba bag from Gumigem; entries (UK Residents Only) are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post. See the 12 Days of Parenting page for terms and conditions.

If you’ve been following my #12daysofparenting post, you’ll know that my take on the themes have not been quite as straightforward and I’ve ended up writing longer than I usually do.

Well, I’m hoping to directly engage with today’s theme about parenting expectations vs reality at Christmas and hopefully not write too long. 🙂

So, on my 2nd ‘non-Christmas’ Christmas as a mum, how does my parenting expectations compare to my parenting reality? …. sigh … hmmmmmmmm … Continue reading

How To Face Breastfeeding In Public When It’s Crowded And Cold

Day 9 of #12daysofparenting here, and today’s theme is about babies not stopping at Christmas. Thanks for hopping from My Thoughts on Things if you did. 🙂 Our fab giveaway includes a signed A3 limited edition picture, worth £95 from Fresh Photography‘s recent Iceland blog.  Entries (UK Residents Only) are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post, check out the 12 Days of Parenting page for the terms and conditions.

Christmas shopping, and Boxing Day and New Year sales are upon us; so are very busy child friendly spots, with pretty much all tots groups on a break. For some breastfeeding mums, this is a nightmare when out and about; where in the world would you find a place to feed your child with so many people around? At the busy times, in busy crowded public places, how can breastfeeding mums, especially those still finding their feet, confidently and comfortably boob as needed. Continue reading

Outdoor Christmas Displays that make you stop

It’s Day 8 of #12daysofparenting blog, and today’s theme is the obligatory Christmas pic. Thanks for hopping from Having a Baby and Living at Home if you did. 🙂 Entries (UK  residents only) for the fab giveaway, which includes a Cuddle Dear from Cuddle Dry, are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post. Check out the 12 Days of Parenting page for the terms and conditions of the giveaway .

I take pictures as it occurs to me, and this time of the year is no different; so, no particular obligatory Christmas pic.

My little man and I suited up and went walking the other day, to check out one of the Christmas traditions that I enjoy in our traditionless non-Christmas season.

Residential Outdoor Christmas Displays walk

 Bring on some outdoor Christmas displays that make you stop, stand, and stare!

Residential Outdoor Christmas Displays

First we saw this reindeer with a moving head, I’m not sure what the other animal is; through a gate on our way from home, and over the gate on our way back.

Residential Outdoor Christmas Displays reindeer

Then we saw the most spectacular one I’ve seen this year so far. Oh my word! Whilst the other one was a ‘look at that’, this was definitely a, ‘WOAH, CHECK THAT WOWSER OUT’. I moved back and parked the buggy for us to get a better view. It just felt good to be there; I could see myself sitting on its front lawn and chilling for  while. My picture doesn’t do justice to the display.

Residential Outdoor Christmas Displays lights

And then this one, with quite a few Father Christmas figures, with different moving lights, including running reindeers.

Residential Outdoor Christmas Displays figures

May – my #12daysofparenting code word – I assume that the house owners don’t mind these pictures being taken? I figure they know it will draw more attention than usual and that folks like me might take some pictures.

I must say that I’m quite chuffed with what my camera captured; and thanks to picmonkey for their ‘exposure’ editing tool.

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7 Easy And Fun Things To Do With Tots While You Cook

It’s Day 7 of #12daysofparenting blog, and today’s theme is about cooking with children. Thanks for hopping from Glossy Tots if you did. 🙂 Entries (UK  residents only) for the fab giveaway are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post; check out the 12 Days of Parenting page for the terms and conditions of the giveaway .

So, cooking with children during this season and beyond … how does that work? Precious Sparkle is not even 2 and I know normal everyday cooking with him adds that bit of challenge to it. It doesn’t help that he is oblivious to kitchen hazards, and wants his diverse needs met whenever he fancies. 😃

It must be that much more stressful, getting through cooking a time-consuming feast like many do during this time of the year, with tots. So I thought I’d share 7 easy and fun things to do with tots while you cook; the ‘that little less stressful’ cooking experience with children is largely achieved from keeping them occupied.

These activities are easier if there is someone else in the house that can do them with your tot(s) whilst you cook, but they’re doable if it’s just you, especially with only one child … or with a mix of older and younger children.

Easy and Fun Things to do with tots while cooking

Here we go …

Easy And Fun Things To Do With Tots While You Cook

1. Reading

It’s never too early to cultivate a love of reading in children, though it’s not always easy to get them to sit down to read. Reading is a favourite pastime at ours and my little one sometimes brings his books to us to read.

In between visits to the kitchen to check on what you’re cooking, reading to tots whilst they stand and stare at accompanying pictures, or sit on your laps resting, is always a special moment.

Babies can play with age-appropriate books in play pens, and toddlers onwards are able to sit down and ‘read’ by themselves for short periods of time (which of course gets longer as they grow older).

For younger children, the more colourful, the bigger the pictures, the more sounds, the easier it is to turn pages for little fingers, the better.

2. Colouring / Doodling

This is fab for young children when supervised, except you want your cushions, floors, and walls covered with pencil / pen marks.

All you need is some paper or colouring book depending on your child’s age, and colouring pencils. This is one to do when you know that you’ll have some considerable gap away from what you’re cooking.

Indeed, depending on how big your kitchen is, and how comfortable you feel about having young children in it, some colouring can be done on the kitchen floor. For this though, I’ll use a really big paper, and make sure I keep a close eye to make sure all they’re doing is colouring.

3. Singing

This is fab for short gaps away from the kitchen … my toddler is now at the age that I can ask him to sing for me, and we can sing together too; such fun. 🙂 Sometimes, they might just be happy to be held, whilst you walk around and sing to them.

If you’re cooking and babywearing, then singing is a fab activity to do together if they’re of age. It is also very soothing for children, especially when they’re younger I think, to hear their parents voice. Singing offers a fab opportunity to keep talking to them without the stress of finding what to talk about to a little person that can’t ‘converse’ back.

If you have a recording set, you could also set singing / recording challenges for children who are old enough, as a little project to do for later sharing with the family … a fab time-consuming activity to positively occupy their attention.

4. Window Watching

This is a calming activity for children who aren’t too big to hold, except you have a safe surface they can sit on and gaze out from.

Gazing out of the window is a distraction that works all the time with Precious Sparkle, and it can be as short or long as I want, except when he particularly wants to stay longer.

We watch the planes flying through the clouds, the birds flocking together, cars passing by, lights etc. He likes pointing out what he sees, and repeating them as his language develops. It really gives him lots to jibber jabber about; and sometimes he just enjoys watching all the goings and comings quietly.

This is definitely an easy peasy low stress activity for short or long gaps between cooking checks.

5. Playing Games

What games you play and how you do this depends on the age of your child.

Play mats are fab for babies, and play pens for older babies until they want to explore beyond it. They are fab to use for quick dashes to the kitchen to check what you’re cooking, or to the loo, or to get the door etc. They might even fit your kitchen if it’s big enough and what you’re cooking has a low potential hazard e.g. doesn’t require the movement of hot food across surfaces etc.

Peekaboo is a fab game and you can make this as high or low energy as you want; not one to play whilst in the kitchen for considerable lengths of time, but one that works with a very quick dash to the kitchen for very quick cooking checks.

I make up games with my toddler that we can play whilst he stands by the kitchen door when I’m perhaps checking the pot on the cooker. For example, I say the names of certain animals and he makes their sounds, or vice versa; or I repeat bits of nursery rhymes that he enjoys and he fills in the verbal gap. He usually lets me know when he’s had enough. 🙂

For older children, there are lots and lots of educational games out there, both offline and online. I must say I’m not keen on online games or children spending lots of time on the computer for a number of reasons that I might explore in another post. Board games like connect 4 or age-appropriate puzzles comes in very handy too.

6. Outdoor Play

This is hard to do if there aren’t other adults around and your child(ren) isn’t old enough to be out on their own.

It can be high energy but also exhilarating for all involved. It can be as simple as running around your garden, balcony, or communal space; you of course need to take necessary precautions for their safety … the last thing you want is a child getting hurt when you’re cooking.

7. Get them involved

The last but not the least is to get them involved in the cooking process, either partly or fully, and of course take care to keep them away from cooking hazards whilst telling them about it.

There are lots of fun ways you can do this, from low hazards / low mess ways like getting a kitchen set for them to play with, to time-consuming / high mess ways like getting them to wear an age-appropriate apron and helping to get ingredients ready. I currently don’t do either of this.

Precious Sparkle now knows he shouldn’t go into the kitchen whenever he fancies, especially when we’re cooking. He understands words like ‘hot’ and he knows an accompanying action which helps to turn discouraging his interest in reaching out for hot things, into a kind of game.

I also sometimes hold him, to take him into the kitchen to observe parts of our cooking, and I take the opportunity to tell him names of food and highlight any obvious kitchen hazards.

So, there you have it, 7 easy and fun things to do with tots while you cook, I hope you’ve picked up an idea that you can try out. ‘Hat’ is my #12daysofparenting code word. 🙂

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How To Survive Breastfeeding During Christmas

Fab to have you here if you hopped from Having a baby and living at home or not :-). Welcome to my 6th #12daysofparenting blog; today’s theme is about top Christmas party survival tips.  There are lots of fab prizes to win, including a cloud 9 collection worth £113 from Younique. Check out the 12 Days of Parenting page for the terms and conditions of the giveaway (UK  residents only). Entries are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post.

It’s the end of the year and Christmas dominates … cards, carols, secret santas …. Christmas lists, tacky and top presents, work Christmas parties and family dinners … jumpers, trees, ornaments … on and on the list goes. And yes, people, people, people … people all around, way more than usual.

It’s the time of the year when we get in touch or see folks we sometimes haven’t seen for a long time. It’s also the time of the year when travelling needs increases, and there are lots of evening events. And as such it’s one that can make us feel somewhat anxious, especially when it comes to aspects of our life like breastfeeding.

I’ve already missed a dinner, as well as a Carol service in the last week, because I chose working with my night breastfeeding pattern over adjusting it to fit Christmas events. I’m also giving my work’s Christmas-do a miss, partly because I breastfeed my 22 months+ old to sleep.

The very thought of rushing or adjusting our sleep process is way too stressful to make it worth my going. “What if we have one of those days when it takes longer than expected to doze off?”, I’ve wondered. The potential frustration of things not working to plan is one I’m not willing to put myself through, especially given that many things don’t go to plan anyway.

How to survive breastfeeding during Christmas

So, how does a breastfeeding mother survive breastfeeding during Christmas, with all its demands?

Below are my top survival tips for breastfeeding during Christmas when deciding about Christmas parties, family get-togethers, and travelling on public or private transport.

1. Remember why you’re breastfeeding

I breastfeed because I want to; not just because others tell me that all things being equal, beyond being the norm, it’s the best for my baby. In fact, my choice to breastfeed my toddler is regularly questioned and ‘jokingly’ ridiculed by someone dear to me. But it doesn’t bother me most of the time because I’m happy with my choice to breastfeed, and I’m convinced it’s the best for my child and I.

This time of the year means more contact with people, and this means more potential for uncomfortable conversations. Confidence about your breastfeeding choices really helps to stay standing tall when questioned by others who have differing views about breastfeeding.

2. Accept that people might ask questions and share their views even when it’s not invited.

It’s helpful to know that not every family and friend will feel okay with your breastfeeding choices. This might especially be the case if you’re extended breastfeeding – a term I avoid using – and even more if it involves feeding on request, or ‘worse’ feeding through the night.

This acceptance will help you to feel less tense if others indeed ask questions or express unhelpful views about your breastfeeding choices.

3. Don’t expect negativity

If you feel that someone is going to attack you, it is likely they will; not because they necessarily do, but because you’re more likely to interpret their actions as such.

If you’ve read about lots of negative experiences towards breastfeeding, it is quite natural to go about feeling somewhat backed in a corner about it. This of course means that you might be ready to metaphorically go for the jugular if anyone dares bring their ignorance or differing views your way.

Hence, it is important to remember that many people react positively to breastfeeding and what might seem like a criticism might not be intended as such.

If you’re feeling positive about your choices, you’ll probably reflect this to those around you.

4. Be prepared for challenges to / criticism of your breastfeeding choices, and be assertive and not aggressive in your response

Aggressive responses to breastfeeding ignorance is more likely to breed breastfeeding illiteracy than breastfeeding education, and indeed, spread more ignorance and illiteracy. Challenging ignorance is also not about scoring points, or even about changing people’s minds. I think an important component in discussions about breastfeeding is the hearing of the voice of the breastfeeder, and not just that of the differing view.

La Leche League International (LLLI) have a lovely article that is worth checking out, “how do I respond to and avoid criticism about breastfeeding?“, #10 on the list can be replaced with UNICEF’s 6 months exclusive breastfeeding advice, and their recommendation to breastfeed to 2 years and beyond with solids.

LLLI’s ‘responding to criticism’ article is also worth reading, it includes 5 methods of responding which many will find helpful.

5. Breastfeeding and alcohol

I don’t drink alcohol, but I know some breastfeeders do. LLL has quite a few articles about breastfeeding and alcohol that are worth checking out. It seems the compatibility of breastfeeding and alcohol, not surprisingly, depends on how much is consumed, and indeed the gap between its consumption by the mother and the breastfeeding of the child.

Even then, Drink Aware in its article about alcohol and breastfeeding, states that abstinence is the official stance of UK’s Royal College of Midwives. Nonetheless, as the Telegraph’s recent breastfeeding and alcohol article indicates, moderate and sensible consumption of alcohol is compatible with breastfeeding.

If you breastfeed and drink alcohol, it’s helpful to know the facts. “What about drinking alcohol and breastfeeding?” is the latest LLL’s article that I found on this issue, and it’s worth checking out.

NHS Choices also addresses the issue of the safety of drinking alcohol while breastfeeding. Lastly, The Breastfeeding Network’s breastfeeding and alcohol downloadable article is a good one to print for quick reference.

Whatever you do, know the facts and plan your alcohol consumption to work for you and your child’s wellbeing.

7. Have a plan

If you’re decide against going to Christmas evening events partly due to your breastfeeding commitments, make sure you’re happy with your decision. You don’t want to be breastfeeding and feeling resentful about being at home when your heart and mind is somewhere else. If needed, it might help to especially treat yourself to a movie, book, food or something else you particularly enjoy.

If you decide to go to these events, it’s helpful to think about how you’ll manage breastfeeding whilst there. If you’re leaving your child at home, it might mean leaving pumped milk for them, or some other age appropriate food item. It is also helpful to decide whether you need to pump or not whilst you’re away, and to plan for the detail of this in advance. This will probably depend on how long you’re away for and how long you’ve been breastfeeding.

If you’re taking your child with you, deciding where you’re happy to feed – in a private place or wherever you are – will help to keep any anxiety about feeding at bay, or at least to minimize it.

9. It’s okay to feed your child on public transport

I wish I knew this at the start of my breastfeeding journey, it would have saved us some tears.

If you’re planning to use a breastfeeding cover, it’s helpful to have it with you when you sit down. I was once in a situation when I didn’t and It was horrible. I couldn’t safely get up with my crying and struggling baby to get my cover from the buggy, whilst the bus was moving. In the end, I stumbled through feeding without a cover whilst putting up a confident front. I wasn’t used to feeding in public without a cover at that time, so you can imagine how uncomfortable I felt.

Feel free to stare back at anyone who stares at you, and remember you are not doing anything illegal. More than these, you’re doing what you’ve got to do to meet your child’s need. In any case, I think many commuters will choose a ‘quietly’ breastfeeding child over a crying hungry one.

You can also pump on public transport if you have the right pumping gear. I’ve never tried it but I’ve read about some who have.

10. Plan for breastfeeding breaks on private transport.

A child wants boobing when a child wants boobing, except you do really structured feeding. Plan for extra hours on your long journeys, to accommodate stops to breastfeed and stretch your legs. Driving with a crying hungry baby is of course distracting, and not safe, especially on long journeys. So, it’s worth noting places you can stop to boob, if and when needed, before starting your journey.

Pumping on long journeys is a time saver. It’s worth taking spare batteries for your pump, just in case. Take care not to forget your ice packs and storage bag, but if you do, know that you can keep breast milk at room temperature for 4 hours, and it’s okay up to 8 hours.

See this LLL downloadable breastmilk storage information sheets for more info. Page 4 is especially worth print out for reference.

11. Do what works for you and be kind to yourself

I hope you have a lovely end to the year, perhaps a ‘white’ (my #12dasyofparenting code word) one, without hiccups on your breastfeeding journey. Ultimately, do what works best for you and your baby. It’s your life and no one can walk in your shoes like you can.

Also, don’t forget to be kind to yourself; keep a good supply of water near you, and some lovely munchies. Be confident about your choice, and gently speak out when you need to.

One more thing, if you can, avoid stress; or at least take breaks from it. Have a stress management plan to help you work with potential expected stress. I was told at the start of my breastfeeding journey that breast milk supply and stress aren’t the best of friends.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

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~ What would you add, and what are your top breastfeeding survival tips in instances like this? ~

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Free Tots Friendly Days Out For A Craftless Christmas

Welcome to my blog if you’ve hopped from Having a baby and living at home or not :-). Here is my 5th #12daysofparenting blog; today’s theme is about Christmas Crafts.  There are lots of fab prizes to win, including a Sand Art Picture; check out the 12 Days of Parenting page for the terms and conditions of the giveaway (UK  residents only). Entries are via the Rafflecopter at the end of this post.

I wish I was a crafts kinda person, but I think living with a toddler may yet … actually  … will definitely … most likely … probably … turn me into one … even if I don’t exactly enjoy every aspect of it. So with crafts not being on my list of top things to do, you might guess that Christmas crafts – especially if you’ve read my #12daysofparenting posts so far – is definitely out of the question for me.

But hey, I don’t want Precious Sparkle to be oblivious to the festivity at this time of the year. So, it got me thinking about how I could help him enjoy the atmosphere whilst keeping our hands clean and our pockets full, as much as possible. There are some really good quality fun and free tots friendly days out there.

So, if you’re like me in having a craftless Christmas, below are some ideas on outdoor activities that are as fun and imaginative, and potentially as hands on; albeit with little after-mess to clear up.

1. Check out Christmas decorations outside houses in your area

This is such fun on these shorter days; you don’t have to part with any money to look and enjoy, and you probably don’t have to walk very far. There tends to be a collection of light and ornament displays outside people’s houses at this time of the year, some more fanciful than others.

We have one we gaze at through our bedroom windows, and Precious Sparkle is happy to be held whilst looking, pointing, and conversing in toddler talk about it. There are other arrays of light arrangements and a toddler mesmerizing over the top one that are also close by. They make for lovely sights on quiet walks with the tot tucked cosy, and reclining in the buggy, on dark and cold evenings. I look forward to doing more of this once the school holidays starts tomorrow! Yah ….. 🙂

I must also say that whilst it’s a very green venture for us, I prefer not to think about the financial cost and environmental waste generated as a result of these beautiful displays. Obviously fab for the mood, great for the electric company, but sad for the planet. 🙁 A good talking point with my little boy when he is old enough; I can already think of many questions this activity might generate.

I also value the education bonus in this observational activity, beyond its enjoyment value. It’s another opportunity for language development and new learning. I’m planning to play little games with him on our light display walks, where I’ll ask him to identify colours, shapes, and objects in ; or indeed tell him about them. 😊

2. Visit High streets in the evening

Colour me, ‘feeling good’, when it comes to high streets at this time of the year. The light displays vary from one high street to another but they are always so fab to look at. They really induce positive feelings in the atmosphere, don’t they? For toddlers, I’m assuming they are eye-popping, definitely a different experience.

Depending on how far you live from your local high street, there might be transportation costs to consider; on the plus side, they are free to enjoy. 😏 You can also plan a shopping trip to coincide with this activity; fulfilling two outcomes in one journey.

I can’t wait for us to do this with Precious Sparkle, both in our local area and farther afield. I will also be sure to squeeze out any teachable moment I find from it. 😁

3. Go to one or more Christmas lights switch-on events

Did you know there are Christmas lights switch-on guides for different areas, available on the net? I recently stumbled upon this on google.

They tend to be in November, and they usually involve lots of contributions from local businesses. This means that you can expect cute little and lovely stalls to spring up around the area of the event, some streets will be probably be closed, there might be a fun procession at the start, and many other jolly activities. The highlight of the day is the switching on, and there is usually lots of excitement about this.

We went to one last year and it had a mini family friendly carnival atmosphere about it; lots of buggies and children around with their parents. There were lots to taste, lots to see, cute little buys, and a whole load of lovely festive feeling.

4. Visit Christmas Markets

I haven’t been to a lot of these but I’ve been to enough to know they are worth experiencing. They offer so many sights and sounds to enjoy, without the need to necessarily make any purchase. You can of course expect to find unusual buys from there too.

Like the others above, it’s a very happy and cheerful environment, with lots of warmth and coziness especially on cold and dark evenings. It’s also free, though you might have transportation costs depending on how far you live from one; and you don’t have to buy anything though you’ll probably be tempted to.

Many Christmas markets have decorations and areas to amuse children; some of these might involve a small fee, but some free entertainment tends to be available too.

I usually stumble on Christmas markets, but I think I’m going to particularly take Precious Sparkle to one or more this year. It’s another new experience for him, which is both fun and educational.

5. Check out a Winter Wonderland

I’ve only ever been passed through a Winter Wonderland once in my life, but I think this is about to change. They are such a festive place to hang out with family and friends. Some of them are outdoor in parks like the Winter Wonderland in Hyde Park in London, whilst others are indoor like the Winter Wonderland in Manchester.

They tend to have a host of activities, shops, and entertainment through the day, and they have a really happy and festive feel about them. The outdoor ones tend to be free to enter … I think; I know the one in Hyde Park has free entry, though you’ll have to pay for key entertainments if you want.

They are opened from morning to night, until Christmas Eve or after the new year. You can really make a day out of it for the whole family; don’t forget to plan in loo breaks and nap / rest times if you don’t want unwanted accidents and cranky children on your hands.

I haven’t thought about Winter Wonderlands for years, but I think we’ll be paying one a visit this year with our little man and other loved ones.

6. Christmas Specials in museums and other places

Lots of places like museums, local authorities, libraries, theatres, shopping centres have one-off family friendly festive events, activities, or/and displays around this time of year to get more people through their doors. Some of these are free, others are not.

I’ll be checking my local event listings in the library and shopping centre, as well as that of local museums / theatres and those further afield, to see their (free) tots friendly events that we can visit over the next 2 weeks.

Some churches or Christian organisations might also have nativity plays with grown ups that might catch your fancy. The nativity play performed by the Wintershall Estate in Guildford is one I’d like to attend sometime. I’m probably already too late for this year’s, which finishes on Sunday.

Whatever you do, especially if it’s far from home, don’t forget to consider its impact on your child’s sleep pattern or routine.

You probably weren’t expecting a post like this for the collaboration theme; even then, I hope you enjoyed reading it.

It is merry / happy Christmas, in Malagasy (the language spoken in Madagascar), Tratra ny Noely – my #12daysofparenting code word. 🙂

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My Full-Time Mum End of 2015 Holiday Hopes

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I’m a full-time working mum and school holiday times are super precious, so much more precious than they used to be.

I don’t have a list for Santa, but I’ve got a long list of holiday hopes for this year ending.

My tendency towards a laissez faire approach to how my holidays go doesn’t cut it anymore, I’m a mother now and I’ve got some massive womaning up to do.

So, here are my holiday hopes for the end of this year, and I really hope they will stand me in good stead on the parenting road in the coming year.

Family Time Holiday Hopes

A holiday without a range of tots groups‘ is one that needs planning … my experience has shown me over and over again that little is accomplished with a toddler when left to time and chance. So here comes the planning of a meaningful holiday routine for our toddler and family time. This schedule must be ready by the end of this week. 🙂

Also, bring on more intentional alone times with hubby, it’s so easy to put this on the back burner when you’ve got a little one to look after, isn’t it.

My Full Time Working Mum Holiday Hopes

Family and Friends Holiday Hopes

I wish I didn’t struggle to stay in touch. The call / skype / email list and timetable route seems to be worth trying out …  I might even have a go at a family newsletter; ‘might it really save me some time’, I wonder.

Catch-ups Holiday Hopes

No school work to-do list is hanging over this head; not this time around! The plan is to leave work at the school’s gate when I leave on Friday. Perhaps, I might spend some hours on some of my work to-do list the day before resumption.

O my word, why does ‘house’ have to have so much ‘work’ after it? 😂  I’ve got some serious catching up to do at home if my “spotless house before the new year’s” hope is to see fulfilment! So, here is to setting aside 2 hours on designated days to focus on certain chores. Wish me well …😁

Blogging Holiday Hopes

Where do I start with this one?

  • Check and fix broken links
  • Finish my ‘Blogging from A to Z challenge‘ before the end of the year; perhaps on my other blog too.
  • Make a realistic weekly blog plan for my posts and social media and do some scheduling, for this blog and my teacher blog.
  • Catch up on pending reviews, linky reads, and make sure that I’m up to date with all blog contributor commitments.
  • Sort out my linkys.
  • Finish some of my drafts, and experiment with some of my new blog ideas.
  • Try syndicating some of my posts if there is time.

overall, I need to do a health check on my blogs and be at a blog happy point by the end of the year; trying to keep an eye on my blogtacles, right. On a serious note, I’m still struggling with rising from my blogging crisis; it’ll be really fab to feel fully on my feet again.

‘Me’ Holiday Hopes

  • Spend more time with God and His Word
  • Get some good quality sleep
  • Start reading for leisure again
  • Start journaling again
  • Make and eat healthier food

Overall, pay more attention to my spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

Holiday Hopes Overall

I’m really hoping for a memorable family time with a happy toddler, a less cluttered home space, less intrusion of work in my head, better blogging and blogging space, and a more wholesome me. I think this will make for a happy holiday time without tots groups, ‘tots’ being my code word. 🙂

And oh, I need to review my 2014 Review and 2015 Hopes as well as my 12 days of blogging posts, as we speed towards the new year.

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